Girls marriage age

Plz give ur opinion

Polki my cousin is 33 now she is 7 months pregnant .Touchwood all is well ;hope so it does in future too !

I voted for 24-27.

This is cos at 24 education is usually complete (unless you are studying to be a doctor ) and you can look forward to other concerns. If you get married while studying (21-24) then you sort of get enveloped in the duties of matrimony and somewhere studies take a kind of backseat- I'm not saying people discourage, but yes, somewhere mind starts focussing on lots of things.

If you've completed education by 21, then 21-24 is also fair enough to get married.

From 27-31 is my third choice. But by then you will lose out on some of the best years of romantic life. You'll become seedha adult- the youthful innocence will somewhere wilt- the one that makes marriage special.

32- 35 is my last choice. It is really not right to prolong marriage this long. As Polki rightly said, it increases risk of certain diseases. But more commonly- it can lead to some types of deformities in the children, most commonly down's syndrome.

Waise there is a medically proven fact- the earlier you get married and conceive, the better the progeny will turn out to be genetically. Now I don't mean one should get married at 12 but yes, the earlier you conceive (20 onwards, I mean), the better and more healthy your child is likely to be . So it is always better to complete your family by 32, maximum 34.

21 to 24 . First child shud be born by 25 . Then woman can see growth of children , grandchildren , all . She is more prone to adjusting when young .As she grows she hardens and becomes less flexible .That creates difficulties . Also as niki said , after 30 down syndrome risk is horribly high . if u marry at 27 and the second child is after 30 , its dangerous . The cancer risk is awful . I vote for early marraige .

Aww thank you polki for d info! I m confuse whom to vote Actually among my relatives, there r many examples of being a mother after 30 my mom also. Mom was preggo wid my younger sis at 31 while she married at d age of 21 We both came 8 yrs later! Confused very confused !!!!!!

I voted 24 - 27, though I am leaning towards the higher end of that group.

My wife and I were married when we were 21 and 28 respectively.
It was I that was in such a rush (juuuust in case she came to here senses before I could seal the deal and make it irrevocable - ha ha).
However, we both agreed that she should first enjoy her life a bit - see and experience life and the world for a few years.
We had a our first child after 6 years of marriage. And second one after another 4 years.
Now, another few years and we can get our house back -

Ultimately, the age should be decided per the comfort of the girl involved. Different girls mature at different ages.
Some are quite ready to handle the issues of a relationship much earlier than others.
Some are never ready for that kind of a commitment - (like most men) - ha ha

Getting ready for child rearing is another issue altogether.

22-24 is a good age for a girl I think. She shud complete her education and get some work experience before marriage. Also at this girls get a lot of proposal so they can b picky and choose the right guy (with help of parents ofcourse). I always tell my friends they can afford to b picky right but don't b too picky lol. Think practically abt every proposal. I agree with the reasons above too so won't repeat.

What do guys think abt guys? How much shud the age difference b?

I think guys take longer to mature. Some mature early but u can't find those lol. If I m getting married after 22 then I don't mind a 30 yr old but that's my max. My jiju is 27 but he is very immature. So it depends on every case. Also ppl say girls look old faster so it's better to hav some age difference so that u don't start looking like the guys mom after 30 or 40 lol

Ok I vote for 28-31. Reason simple enough well educated,well experienced in job by den; have become matured enough to handle relationships

i vote for 24-27..where ur old enugh to judge what u really want in life and ur life partner and not so old tht ur pregnancy has medical issues..and like niki said,unless ur a doc,by this time ur education is mostly complete..i totally think education in very important before getting married..

fyi guys,my third round of All India counselling is day after..have come home for a few days..please please please pray for me tht i get a college close to home..pune seat is available now..hoping tht it stays till my rank..it has to..am not giving it a choice..am coming back home..*determined muh*

I was watching a show on Sony yesterday where a guy in his 30s says how it's hard to adjust and all in marriage when u get married so late.

Kool, it reminded me of what u say. U won't believe it that this is an ekta show loll it's bade ache lagte hain. What the guy said was very true!

I feel 24-27 is the right age
After our studies we can also experience the joy of enjoying our job and some freedom before getting into such huge responsibility